Being A Human Whisperer

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We have the Ghost Whisperer, Dog Whisperer, Cat Whisperer, Horse Whisperer, but have we thought about being the Mother of whisperers? The Human Whisperer? I know this sounds funny but it is the most fundamental life skill set we all must strive to own. And we believe that as humans, we understand how to do this?

Nope.

The number ONE challenge that just about all of my clients have is to be able to communicate effectively. Whether it is with their loved ones, loved ones, colleagues, clients or subordinates, this is ONE BIG CHALLENGE.

Over the course of the last two to three weeks, it made me realise that the majority of the work that I have been doing is really about teaching people how to communicate effectively. It’s not about speaking well or having good diction. It’s all about communicating with each individual or group in such a way that they get what I am saying. Sometimes, I am required to be tough/stern, others times I’m needed to be soft and loving, and sometimes, it’s important to be humorous.

Communication with self? Can there be effective self talk that one has clarity in the direction they’re heading?
Communicating with others – Are your needs known? Are you being heard?
Is using voice better than touch?
How to communicate effectively with a crowd so that you’re rallying them towards something positive
does being a pioneer automatically make you an effective communicator? Or is it the other way around?
If our communication skills are effective, then we’ll surely have less of a challenge in our relationship with others. It’s a basic skill that we must have. However, it is also one of the hardest to learn, and a skillset that’s challenging to impart.
To effectively learn this skill, attending a workshop for the masses on tactics, techniques etc is not sufficient. Simply because we’re all different. An individual must learn to adapt these skills to different life situations and with various people.

I’ve discovered that certain communication skills I’ve coached one customer on, won’t work on another as efficiently. As the facilitator, I am required to adapt to each of the needs of my clients. Now, keep in mind that as a coach, it is necessary for me to have this skill set. But the fact isthat everybody should have these skill sets too. We need one another, that goes without saying, so our need for one another requires us to communicate. If this ability is missing, not only are our own needs not being met, you won’t have the ability to fulfill the needs of others too, whether it’s in an intimate relationship, social connection or work relationship.

And there are more than 7 million results. This only goes to show that even the most fundamental human need is not being met. Couples are having real problems communicating their basic needs to their partners. If this is a challenge, what about other needs?

Take A Golfing Vacation!

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Golf is a popular sport, but it is also among the most fascinating activities. There is no wonder why golf travel and hotels are becoming more and more popular nowadays. Golfing helps you interact with others socially. It gives you a chance to strengthen your friendships and meet new people. In actuality, golfing is a well-known networking technique that many businessmen use.

Golf also has a lot of health benefits. It strengthens your bladder and increases your heart rate. It helps you keep fit and it enriches your muscle tone and endurance. It also helps you lose weight and improve the quality of your sleep.

So, if you’re planning to go on a golf excursion, here are the best golf resorts that you should try:

1. The Royal and Ancient Golf Club of St. Andrews (Fife, Scotland)

This golf resort is located in the charming city of St. Andrews. This was founded in 1754. This golf course has a breathtaking view. Additionally it is filled with charming Scottish buildings like the Old Course Luxury Hotel. Thus, if you have money to burn and you wish to feel like a royal, you need to go to this resort.

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This awesome golf resort is situated on the border of the scenic and beautiful Tucker’s Point in Bermuda. This hotel is secluded and it has a wonderful view of the hills and the sea. So, if you would like a little private time, you should definitely visit this place.

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This is probably among the most popular golf resorts in the whole world. It’s frequented by professional golfers and die hard golf enthusiasts. This beautiful resort is located in Kohler, Wisconsin. The golf course is situated along the shoreline of Lake Michigan. This resort is full of gardens and luxury cottages. It certainly gives you an experience that will last a lifetime.

4. K Club Resort (Kildare, Ireland)

This hotel is just thirty minutes away from downtown Ireland. The lodging construction in the resort was established in 1830 and it looks much like a French chateau. This post-card perfect hotel has two golf courses that guests can enjoy.

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This golf resort is located about 6,200 feet above sea level and up against the Rocky Mountains. It’s mainly called a tennis destination, but this highland resort also has three golf courses that guests may enjoy.

6. Bandon Dunes Golf Resort (Bandon, Oregon)

This golf resort was established in 1999 and it is one of the favorite destinations of seasoned golfers and golf enthusiasts. Many golf magazines consider this resort among the best in the world. This resort does not have the luxury accommodations that the majority of the hotels in this list provide. But, its modest and cozy rooms are pleasant and comfortable.

Golf travel and hotels are now becoming a trend. So, if you would like to bring your golf game to the next level, you need to book your trip now.

Popping The Question?

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Proposing is a very big deal, both for the man and the girl involved in it. The man needs to work up the courage to ask the question, while the girl will become very emotional and cry. For women this moment is not just psychological, but tremendously important. They will talk with their wives about this subject for days or weeks. Not to even mention the crazy talks about the ring she’s.

Decide on a place, a date and make a speech before proposing. The talk before popping the question is important. It can make you girl teary or not. But if you prepare ahead, you will definitely impress your girl.
Talk To Her Parents – Even though it is a very traditional thing to do, take action. She’ll definitely appreciate you’ve gone through all of the effort to speak with her parents. And if she likes traditions, it is even better.

Select the Ring or Let Her Do It – Some future brides are extremely particular when it comes to their jewelry. So, if you have noticed a pattern about what rings she likes and which she hates, it is simple to choose a ring. On the other hand, if your girl is quite picky, it is wise to take her with you. This way there will not be any unpleasant surprises ahead.

Go Big – Rather than picking a random place, pick a personal one. Maybe the spot where you two met or where you had your first date. Get creative. Imply hobbies and likes into your proposal. Make your speech great, but not too clingy. Make it funny and adorable. Let me understand why you want to marry her, what you like about her and why you love her so much. Don’t just throw those magical words and expect some great reaction from her. She wants to be swept of her feet so be ready for that.

It Is All About Intimacy – While suggesting in front of her loved ones, friends or strangers, in the center of the street or at a sports even sounds fun, it isn’t. The marriage proposal is a thing that needs to be intimate. Let her have her moment. Let her cry her eyes out and then make love to you all evening. If you ask her in front of your family or some random people her reaction might be somewhat awkward. Ladies get very emotional when it comes to proposals and that is why they should be kept private. Get intimate and get it done so she can recall it.
The marriage proposal is all about the passion, the intimacy and the fire. Follow these tips and your union proposal will be great.

The Perfect Spot For Engagement Pics

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After the big question was popped, then now is the time for good parties and the creation of memories. There are many things you begin to worry about once you’re engaged. They include the places, guest lists, themes, dates, and even wedding decorations to your wedding. It may be a time that is extremely overwhelming and you may still need to organize your engagement party as well as take the engagement photos.

For your photographs to be unforgettable, it is crucial to choose the ideal location. There are many things that you can do so as to wind up with some of the nicest photos at the end of the day.

Things to consider

You absolutely have to take into account aesthetics. It’s a really significant part the location choice. When it is a natural beauty, then it works beautifully. Consider the kind of background you want and then pick a location.

Theme

After a theme always makes certain that you get the most desired results. You can opt to do it in a gallery space that’s well designed. You can even do it outside in the event that you want to have that rustic feel. If these are photos that might be used on the invitations, then it can be cohesive if a theme is followed. They are sometimes the preview of what people should expect at the wedding.

Personality

Adding personality makes them meaningful a much more intimate as they reflect the character of the bunch. If there’s a special personality that you have in the relationship, then it should be helpful in determining the venue. Be certain you use something that brings out that unique you to the world.

You should settle for a place that is very important to the two of you. In addition, settle for places where you might have generates some of the most beautiful memories and areas that are of some significance to you.

Creativity

It’s extremely important to be creative. This is something which makes the photographs even more amazing. Try getting that unique angle, a creative pose, a creative ensemble, etc. Thinking broadly definitely helps in the region you can even include tour pets and kids if you have any so as to make the session as imaginative and as unique as your actual relationship actually is.

Another very important thing which should never be left out during such sessions is that the ring! You need to have some of those shots to show off the rock! There is no engagement with no after all. Finding the ideal location can be difficult, but then, it can still be among the best ways which you can relax and have great fun together. It’s an amazing way to bond and make some new memories.

Help Your Kids Be Self Confident

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Thinking back to our school days, we were taught various subjects, provided a bit of guidance about what career we should follow and that’s about it. There weren’t, and still are not, any superb coaching programmes in school unless you are an athlete.

Furthermore, with current UK government policy suggesting that all young people should have a coach or mentor, it’s hard to understand how this would work in practical terms.

This situation continues to be of concern because the education sector continues to cut budgets and careers services.

During my teaching career I have never seen or experienced how schools, colleges and universities and, for that matter, offices tap into the root passions which we are all born with.

Imagine if the schooling system tapped into our core passions and promoted educational subjects around those passions instead of trying to pigeonhole everyone?

Having worked with thousands of young people, my purpose in life is to inspire and encourage parents, guardians and those who meet young people to coach them towards a life and career full of purpose and have fun doing it. That’s why I’ve written this report.

I love what I do because of the results I get working with both adults and young folks. This is particularly important for what we describe as the lost generation of kids.

With young people I love to see them find what they want to do in life as this helps them focus on their choice of studies. What’s your story going to be?

So, let’s get down to it.

I’d like to help you to discover your child’s purpose in life and potentially your own – are you ready? Remember that these exercises are best done with young people age 14+ as this is the time when the family unit starts to consider further education at college and university. In addition, this exercise is just as valuable for your older children age 18+, with or without assistance.

It is therefore easy to wander and drift and accomplish little in life. I’ve known hundreds of students like this who have attended college and university with no idea of why they are there or what they would like to accomplish in life.

To start with try to talk with young people in a casual environment – do not sit them down and begin grilling them because they’ll just walk off – usually!

As a career coach I use The Jack Canfield Success Principles and among the main places to start is to ask the young people in your family this query.

Ask them “What do you need?”

So another question if they get stuck is to ask them what they don’t want e.g. to poor, homeless and jobless and only 3 examples.

Then ask “So in case you don’t wish to be poor, homeless and jobless what would you like instead”?

At this stage either you or they can be composing a list. The list will often contain ‘things’ like cars and vacations as well as more spiritual things like to be happy and content. It does not matter what the answers are right now.

Once there is a list ask your young person to search on the Internet for pictures of what they want and print them out. The pictures can then be put on the wall to remind them every day what they’re aiming for. Some people just enjoy a list and that is fine also.

This is the first of several questions you can ask them. To work through the full course you may want to buy a book I’ve written for parents and career advisers.

General Anxiety

Frequent Characteristics of Anxiety

Medically, anxiety is defined as a state of apprehension, fear or uneasiness about some impending or expected event. It’s a specific emotional reaction, which may be accompanied by a variety of physical symptoms, such as difficulty in swallowing, diarrhea, muscle strain or irregular heartbeats.

People, Adult, Girl, Portrait, WomanAnxiety is one of the most common of all emotions. In certain situations such as one involving physical danger, anxiety is an appropriate reaction. In others, either the amount of anxiety or the apprehensive reaction itself isn’t warranted by the situation.

Appropriate and Inappropriate Anxiety

Anxiety is a natural reaction to something that threatens health or well being. Throughout life, the majority of us are exposed to a lot of stressful situations that provoke anxiety. However, if the degree of anxiety is inappropriate to its origin, is exaggerated beyond reason or is caused by improbable events, the answer is generally considered abnormal and may require treatment.

Appropriate stress is chiefly characterized by stress.

If, however, the dread of job loss is not realistic, then the anxiety breeds more anxiety. This type of anxiousness without any recognizable cause very often impairs the individual’s ability to function.

The origins of these internal psychological problems are still not entirely understood. On occasion, they may be traced to childhood experiences. This is often true of phobias, like a fear of dogs that can be traced to a childhood dog snack. Another typical example of a phobia is agoraphobia (fear of open spaces), in which anxiety is aroused when a person attempts to leave the comfortable setting of the home. Outside the home–in crowded stores, subways or theaters–stress is heightened; the person usually hovers near a door in order to get away if needed.

Since the debilitating anxiety is diminished when fear-producing situations are avoided, withdrawal to familiar surroundings is reinforced and, in severe cases, the person may become completely housebound. Certain organic illnesses, such as low blood sugar (hypoglycemia) also may produce feelings of stress. In about half of all cases of clinical stress, however, there’s absolutely no discernible cause.

Anxiety States

In some, however, anxious feelings and ideas are almost constantly present in what is known as an anxiety state. This chronic condition occasionally peaks in a “panic attack,” which can occur without any obvious reason at any time. The physical symptoms of fear increase to such a frightening extent that the victim may, in reality, think that he or she’s suffering a heart attack. Hyperventilation, or over-breathing, is common throughout panic attacks and may lead to light-headedness and even to fainting.

Anxiety

Generalized Anxiety

Common signs of clinical anxiety include:

Jitteriness

Twitching

Sweating

Palpitations

Insomnia

Panic Attacks

Recurrent, unpredictable panic attacks are characterized by the following:

Dizziness, faintness

Physical Symptoms

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When an individual is anxious, certain body processes accelerate. These are the normal “fight or flight” reactions that help us cope with emergencies. The physical symptoms include breathing irregularities, particularly hyperventilation; muscle strain; perspiration, and an increased pulse rate.

Treatment of Anxiety

There are a number of approaches to take into account in treating anxiety. On occasion, practicing relaxation techniques such as meditation, or taking a warm bath or exercising may help in overcoming mild anxiety. If hyperventilation is a issue, breathing into a paper bag will help conquer the over-breathing and feelings of light-headedness.

Medication might also be recommended to help the individual cope more effectively with stress, particularly the unwarranted anxiety that has no apparent cause. These drugs, like any medication, should be taken only depending on your doctor’s instructions. They shouldn’t be taken in conjunction with alcohol, and your doctor should know about any other medicine you may be taking.

By way of instance, an agoraphobic undergoing desensitization would be assisted, in a series of graduated steps, to encounter the crowds and public spaces that cause anxiety. Numerous other treatments, including psychotherapy, are used in treating stress. Your doctor is the best judge of which ones are most suitable for your type of anxiety.

Summing Up

Most anxiety is normal and most emotional conflicts can be discussed with family or friends with great results. However, if these usual way of handling problems do not prove satisfactory, and if anxiety produces undue distress, professional help is a good idea. Numerous effective treatments, which may include the use of tranquilizing drugs, can help those who suffer stress to live more comfortable and productive lives. Remember, nobody is immune from nervousness.

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Wildlife trapping

All people encounter wildlife daily. Sitting on your porch in the morning, you can see squirrels scampering through the trees and hear birds singing their songs. But when this wildlife invades your living area, it can be downright dangerous – not to mention horribly inconveniencing.

A few issues which may arise include:

Damage to property

Spread of disease

The death of a beloved pet

Loss of livelihood for farmers or ranchers

Elevated levels of stress for the homeowner

Disruption of daily routines

Inability to safely utilize parts of your home or property

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While most issues have both pros and cons related, there’s not a single benefit to having a wildlife infestation. The key is knowing when to call an expert wildlife removal company, so the issue does not get out of control. To do this, homeowners will need to know the warning signs of wildlife infiltration.

Indications of Unwanted Wildlife in the Home

The most obvious sign of undesirable wildlife is visual confirmation. If you see a coyote running across your backyard at night, hear birds in your attic, or catch sight of a mouse running across your kitchen floor, you know there is a problem which has to be fixed.

If you pay attention there are subtle clues which say you may have a problem. Some of the most common signs Outside visual confirmation include:

Large holes dug under your fence, barn, chick coop, or home’s foundation

Unusual noises can be heard which Can’t be allocated to any other source

The shingles on your roof may reveal signs of damage

Footprints are found on roof or yard

A strange (possibly pungent) odor stays without a findable cause

Holes known as “burrows” look around your yard

If you keep any livestock, a certain sign of coyotes is finding blood or skeletal remains

Photo of Squirrel Holding Nut During DaytimeOne last sign many people don’t recognize is that their family pets – cats and dogs primarily – begin to act strangely. These creatures have an exaggerated sense of smell that allows them to capture the scent of infesting wildlife. Dogs may bark in what appears to be nothing, or scrape at walls. They may act aggressively at night when pointed towards door or window. Cats can hiss, show signs of anxiety, and start “peeing” around the house.

Things to Do if You Think You Have a Problem

If you have noticed any of the above signs that wildlife could be an issue in your home, you should call a certified pest elimination company – rather one that practices exclusion as their principal method of solving the problem. It is important you act quickly as a result of many problems unwanted wildlife could pose to your family, pets, house, and possibly even your livelihood.

Friendship

The whole world is about people and the best way to bond to them. They won’t ever remember what and how you achieved great things but they will always remember how you made them feel. So be sure to make them feel good most of the time and they will capture your heart. Starting near about you, how do you behave with the people surrounding you? Read on to find out.

Are you pissed off or sour? If you are ill-tempered, you’ve got something to work on. You need to cool down and then begin talking to your family members. You will need to act well, especially for your children because they are picking up cues from you all of the time. You do not want them to develop to ill-tempered and non-sensible adults.

After getting out of your house, you will satisfy the doorman and most likely the gardener. Say hello to them cheerfully and smile. Immediately you bond a relationship together – which also a meaningful and promising one.

Free stock photo of landscape, nature, people, waterWhen you go to the supermarket, you will probably meet some famous or unknown faces. Smile and speak cheerfully, draw up in your credit card and pull the cart away to avoid chaos. If you meet friends there, Palm Bay FL Rat Removal, be certain to strike a lovely, brief conversation and return home or some other place on your agenda.

Wherever you meet people, make eye contact and smile. They will smile back and you’ll bond together favorably.

Personally, I frequently visit confectionery, stationery and pharmacy stores near my dwelling. All of the people in there have come to understand me. I’m always cheerful and have bonded favorably with them. They take care to deliver their best products and never cheat on me. So bonding with the people you see every day has an upside.

I recently visited my aunt who lives a long distance away from our home. Last time I visited her, we struck a lively and jolly conversation. At the end she handed me a enormous deep blue decorative bag for a gift that I still use today for grocery shopping. Presently when I visited her, I gave her a bangles set purchased from U.S and she adored them. Her three daughters are staying abroad and so when I see her, I fill up some space in her heart and she treats me like her daughter.

We simply need to know how to connect to them favorably. You never know who you will come to want in a time of crisis or danger. So remember to smile at people and bond and above all, make them feel good in a way they’ll love and remember you.

Raising a Preteen

There’s a growing debate surrounding the preteens solitude. Today, mass media makes it tough to control what influences your child imbibes. Additionally, technology provides the world countless methods of reaching your kid. Beyond phones and snail mail, today they have cellphones, email, instant messaging and the internet! We parents can not help but be concerned about just what our kids are up to.
Now, reconcile this with your preteen. If you’ve got a child between the ages of nine and twelve, you should be feeling the challenges of parenting that is senile. Suddenly, your child does not want to be treated like her younger siblings. She wants more freedom, and is beginning to ask for more privacy. She is heavily influenced by her peers, and would like to spend as much time together as possible. If she’s in middle school, then almost half of her waking time is spent outside your home. She is also building friendships with other children that you didn’t know from before.
All those years earlier, you carefully modeled and ready your child for engaging the world by herself. Now, the preteen years are here for a test run. The question is, are you prepared to trust your child?
Most parents say, “I trust my kid, but I do not trust the world”. Her request for privacy isn’t necessarily a step away from you. Rather, it’s a step toward her own development. As her parent, you want that for her too, right?
So, how much privacy does your preteen deserve? Here is the win-win answer. She should have just enough privacy to feel secure, and just enough for you to keep her safe.
Set The Non-Negotiables: Sit down with your child and discuss the balance between her solitude and her protection. Collectively, list down details that you both agree are always important that you know. This includes knowing who her friends are, where they live and what their telephone numbers are (particularly if she spends time in their home). You’ll also have to know everyday details like where she is going and who she’ll be with. Clearly establish what’s not allowed from the outset. This may vary from one family to another, depending on personal values and the environment.
Free stock photo of person, hands, woman, darkGive Her Space: However ironic, realize that your preteen still needs some privacy even if she does live in your house. Better to give her room for self-expression there, rather than having her go and do it somewhere else away from you. At least there, you’re kept aware even from a distance. More often than not anyway, your kid has nothing to hide. But if she feels you always looking over her shoulder (literally and figuratively), she just might begin leaving her diary at school, or begin heading to a friend’s house for the world wide web. Do not give her a reason to keep things from you deliberately.
Talk About Trust: Talk with your child the important role of mutual confidence in the preteen stage. Point out that privacy is guarded by trust. Remind her too that trust is hard earned. Once it is broken, it is even harder to regain. Lastly, remember that the point of the discussion is mutual confidence. It’s a two-way street.
If you sneak around reading your child’s email, think about the message that sends to her on how confidence should be valued.
Be Open: Most importantly, let your child know that she can talk to you about anything. Make her feel safe to approach you with any issue or concern. When she does talk, listen neutrally and sincerely. If at other times she keeps her emotions to himself, respect that decision also.
Recognizing the privacy and ensuring the protection of your preteen could be quite an emotional balancing act. With good communication however, and a mutual commitment to trust, you’ll not only be a responsible parent, but a ‘cool’ one also!
During your child’s preteen stages, many changes are occurring. If you, as a parent, fail to cooperate with that, Critter Control Melbourne FL, big troubles might just happen. However, you can’t afford to just butt in and meddle with your pre-teen’s life – because that’s where the problem really starts.

Are you a mean mom?

“I can not go? You’re the meanest mom ever! When you hear that exclamation, (in addition to the sound of a slamming door), do you clutch your heart with guilt? Do you wonder what you did wrong to fail so miserably as a parent? If so, pay close attention to what I am going to say. According to a renowned, respected researcher, should you are feeling guilty about incidents such as this, you’ve failed your child. According to the researcher, a successful mother is a Mean Mom. Now, wait a minute, you might object. He did not say that, did he?

The researcher, Abraham Maslow, introduced a concept in 1943 at a paper called A Theory of Human Motivation. He identified a hierarchy of human needs that have to be fulfilled, in sequential order, to reach full maturity, or what he termed self-actualization. This theory was accepted and adopted around the world and has earned him the name Father of Humanistic Psychology.

The hierarchy is composed of five levels. If we aren’t provided the critical needs of each level, we can’t progress effectively to another one, thus interrupting the process of becoming a fully mature adult.

Safety – security

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Self-esteem – confidence and value

Self-actualization – ability to find your passion

Wait, not one of these levels says to be a Mean Mom. Really, one does. Can you guess which one? If you guessed Safety, you’re correct. What’s security to a child? A child feels safe when sure the adults depended on to keep them from injury will be there always and unfailingly, regardless of what the conditions.

As a child develops, safety is provided in different ways. For infants it’s being warm, comfortable and attended to. For toddlers, it’s protection as they learn to explore their world. For pre-schoolers, it means to begin to understand boundaries as they learn social skills.

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School-age children feel secure when assured that house will be a non-changing constant in the face of many new adventures as they separate themselves for the first time from family. Teen-agers feel secure when they know that whatever personalities they attempt on won’t fool their parents, and that their parents will keep them safe from experiences they believe that they are ready for, but are not.

When the boundaries are being tested, each and every time without fail. Testing the bounds is their way of checking to see if the safety net remains in place. Every time you back down, the boundaries will be tested again. Being a Mean Mom requires staying consistent, even if you are the only parent on the block who’s. Being a Mean Mom provides the safety and security your children will need to progress to maturity.

How will you know if you’re successful? Your children will let you know. When my son was 3 years old, a friend asked why he loves his mom. His response was, “Because she feeds me good food.” When he was in junior high school, a friend asked him to do something against house rules. The friend’s mother overheard him reply, “No way, man. You can’t eliminate anything with my mom.”

His response was that the friend didn’t have a curfew. What came out of his mouth was my affirmation I was a prosperous mean mom. He said, “I guess his mother does not care about him.” As a mom, that was among the most gorgeous things I’ve ever heard. He got it! So, yes, according to Maslow, a successful mom is a Mean Mom. But it’s not straightforward. Do you have what it takes?

The writer, Maureen LoBue, M.Ed., has united both personal and professional experience to make Mean Mother’s Club: The Mother’s Rule Book. The purpose is to provide a common sense, ready to use reference for busy moms who need to learn the way to be in control of any situation at this time. The seven rules outlined in the book prepare moms to deal with situations at different ages for different kids, using their own parenting style. They help you to understand why your kids are doing what they do and help you to plan ahead for the best way to handle it when they do.

 

Undervalued Employees

People are the world’s greatest resource – in daily life, in relationships and in business.

Regrettably, however, if you haven’t already, you will encounter times when they are not precious as the precious jewels they’re in the work setting.

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Maintaining motivation in the face of adversity, constant adjustments and company politics is hard enough as it is, but when we are undervalued as workers, this becomes particularly challenging. The warning signs are there: you bring your “A” game to every occasion, you under-promise and over-deliver and you shine above the rest… but those in the position to improve your position and pay do not seem to care. They either shower their focus elsewhere or they are otherwise aloof.

Fret not; there are ways to combat this.

Poor leaders have a way of finally being ushered out of the enterprise. While this can take time, and will certainly not happen on your schedule, things change, and the secret is to be at the top of the list of prospects when they are looking for someone to replace shifting upper management. If someone else passes you during this time, you will only kick yourself afterwards.

Second, are you concerned about the wrong people valuing you? Surely, someone values your work and contributions; it just may not be the ones that you think you want it to be. Have you got a significant other and a household for whom you are bringing home the bacon? Have you got a group of subordinates or coworkers to whom you bring a great deal of support and knowledge and guidance and contribution? So, you see, while those who control your paycheck have you down because they don’t appear to know you exist, your home team does and you are making a difference for them. Do not let them down.

Constantly examine your priorities to ensure the ones you are choosing and the ones getting bumped are the ideal ones on both counts. What are you working toward? What is your end goal? The current – while important – is a relative blip on the radar and given you are still able to work toward your ultimate goals in some way, it can serve to keep you motivated during these tough times. Find release. These things will help you to stay whole.

Again, nothing lasts forever and all you can do is control what you can control; you can control your participation and seeking solace in other outlets, Daytona Beach FL Squirrel Removal, but finally, these determining factors can lead one to diagnose a lingering dead end situation as one you need to proceed from. You can do your best, but in the end you must make the choice – as the Clash famously pronounced – “Should I stay or should I go?” You may change your circumstances by taking your talents elsewhere. I would imagine this would be your employer’s loss, but it just might land you closer to your fate.

Good luck!

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Witch'S House The Witch Moonlight Creepy HThe Salem Witch Trial is perhaps one of the most popular trials in history. Nineteen witches were involved in the trial and all of them were to be hung. There were several stories about the Salem witches and there were many stories and books about them. Through the Salem witch trial period several innocent people lost their lives because of suspicion of wizardry. In the memory of the people who lost their lives, the town of Salem has also erected a memorial to respect the lives of people which were buried.

The Salem witch story created hysteria in the village of Salem in Massachusetts. In January of 1692, a small group of women started displaying very weird behaviour and began having seizures Vero Beach Fl Bat Removal. When doctors were called to find these girls, they couldn’t find any explanation for the odd behavior. Because there was no explanation medically, people thought that it was the work of the witches of Salem. So the whole village joined their hands to pray and rid Salem of the witches grip. The affected girls were subsequently made to acknowledge that caused this behaviour. They blamed Martha Cory of the village and considered to have seen Satan. However, she was one of the members of the Puritan congregation and as she was accused, there was a lot of turbulence.

However, the Salem witch affair had already spiraled out of control by then and more and more girls were behaving weirdly. Martha Corey went to trial and was one of the many of the so-called witches who had been hanged.

The Awesome Opossum

While working in a large Animal Shelter, I had contact with thousands of opossums! Thank goodness, a few years ago the County stopped accepting trapped wildlife so, people had to learn how to live peacefully with Opossums.

Lots of people feel that Opossums are aggressive due to their big mouths and 50 sharp teeth! In fact, Opossums are solitary, gentle and placid animals. They avoid confrontation! Adults are normally very slow moving and will only open their mouth to show their teeth and hiss when frightened. They don’t initiate aggression. They’ll retreat whenever possible.

Opossums are actually quite beneficial to our areas. They are omnivores, so they eat both meat and plant. They are essentially scavengers, cleaning up the rotten fruit and debris in our lawns, in addition to carrion (dead road kill, etc.) They will eat insects, snails, slugs, worms, berries, nuts, grass, leaves and pet food. They are quite flexible and make due with whatever food and water is available. Just about every yard has Opossums walking around at night. Trust me, they are not a threat to you or your pets.

Possum Opossum Animal Young Wild WildlifeTheir body is @ 13″ to 20″ long. The tail could be 9″ to 21″ long. They use their thick, prehensile tail to climb and sometimes to carry leaves, etc.. Opossums can live in trees but, the adults can’t hang by their tails while they sleep. Opossums will make a den in any dark, quiet location. They don’t put much effort into creating a home.

Opossums are North America’s only marsupial mammal (female that has a pouch for carrying her young). They’re also nocturnal (sleep during the day and active at night).

The Opossum’s breeding season is from February to June. They become adults and begin mating at @ 1 year old. They could have 1 – 2 litters per season, depending on the climate. The gestation (period from conception to birth) is only 12 – 14 days. The mother has 13 teats and that’s the maximum number of infants she can nurse. Usually, 13 babies won’t make it in the pouch and of those that do, only about 3 to 6 will make it to weaning age. The babies are born undeveloped embryos. They are just about 1/4″ long and about the size of a Honey Bee. After they are born, they scoot to the mothers pouch where they latch onto a teat. Once the babies latch on, the teat swells and elongates and they remain there constantly.

The infants are weaned at 2 to 3 months old and are considered juveniles. At this time they are 6″ to 7″ long. They become independent of their mother when they are 6 – 12 months old and about 7″ to 10″ long. They become breeding adults whenever they are @ 1 year old. The adult males are larger than the females.

The actual truth about “Playing Possum” is probably much different than you thought. When Opossums are extremely frightened, they can go into an involuntary “shock – like” or “fainting state.” This unconscious state can last from 40 minutes to 4 hours. They first awaken by wiggling their ears.

When they are unconscious, they usually have an open mouth and seem to be dead.

Opossums only live 2 – 4 years. They’ve a good deal of predators! Between humans, cars, cats, dogs, owls and larger wildlife, Opossums do not survive very long.

They really aren’t as bad as they seem however, you can call Port St Lucie Fl Bat Removal for Humane trapping and relocation.

Sneezing in Felines

Animalia, Cat, Portrait, Cute, HomeKitten sneezing symptoms and cat sneezing symptoms, such as human symptoms, aren’t in and of themselves a necessarily bad sign. However, chronic sneezing coupled with other symptoms can be especially concerning. Let’s take a look at some frequent cat coughing symptoms and cat cold symptoms.

Small Muffy sticks her investigative nose everywhere… in corners, under furniture, in old smelly shoes. Her sneezing may be merely a healthy reaction to a frequent household irritant like dust, mold, cleaning supplies or pollen, or any other mild cat coughing allergies. Provided that your cat is not frequently sneezing, mark it up to her curiosity.

Cat upper respiratory infection symptoms can mirror cat sneezing allergies, and are the most frequent cause for continual cat sneezing. Comparable to the common cold in people, they can usually be cured by good food and relaxation. If the sneezing continues, a natural application of homeopathic medication can help. Borax and Phosphorous are two elements utilized to help alleviate kitten sneezing symptoms in cats of all ages. As always, contact a reputable source to obtain these remedies.

3 – Dental problems

The upcoming key cause of sneezing in cats is dental disease. This isn’t generally something that cat owners believe to check, but a disease in Tabby’s teeth can easily creep into her sinuses and infect her there. If your cat has pain when eating, Boca FL Animal Removal or reveals swollen gums,  take her to a veterinarian for a dental cleaning.

Actually rather common, the herpes virus generally causes cat sneezing symptoms and upper respiratory problems, maybe even cat vomiting symptoms, but only lasts a few weeks, then goes back into hibernation. If this virus occupies your kitty, he’ll have it his entire life. However, it is rarely a danger to his health. Pulsatilla was used in ancient Greece to heal runny eyes and noses, and is still used effectively in several homeopathic remedies for cats today.

The most dangerous source of cat sneezing is Feline Leukemia. Leukemia interrupts your cat’s immune system, and can cause your cat to deal with other more dangerous diseases such as asthma. If the use of additional common remedies and medication doesn’t help, take your cat to a vet to get a thorough checkup.

Cat sneezing symptoms can be early warning signs of a more serious problem, and are more serious once you notice kitten sneezing symptoms due to the youth of your pet, but are generally treatable by the use of safe, non-invasive, natural homeopathic medicines. Always make certain that whatever you use on your feline friend is FDA approved and contains no artificial colors or preservatives.

Cheap DIY

1.) Programmable Thermostat:

Deck Wood Paint Wooden House Decking VarniOK, so we know that this specific home improvement project does not add anything visually into your home design, but let’s be fair- trimming around 5-10 percent a year off your heating/cooling bill, also allowing you more control over the inside temperature, all while getting a new high-tech gadget is a win-win-win-win situation. A programmable thermostat permits you to prevent ever having to come home to a sweltering heat after a long day of work. It enables one piece of mind when leaving pets at home, no matter how hot it is outside. Coming in at about $75-$120 to have one installed for you- it is truly a remarkably cost-effective way to make sure you get the most comfort possible out of your dwelling. HouseLogic.Com has some pretty good information on choosing which sort of thermostat will suit your needs. And no need to fear! Programmable thermostats (like most other electronic devices in our day-and-age) are becoming more and more user-friendly and simple to operate.

2.) Add a Splash of Color with an Accent Wall:

Painting an entire wall can be a nightmare (believe me, we know), and after a long week of work, the prospect of taking on this overwhelming and exhausting task inevitably leads to a room that remains that exact same old neutral beige. Well- here’s a compromise. How about an accent wall? The difference a single wall of bold color can make in an area can’t be ignored. An accent wall is a superb place to begin remodeling or refurnishing your dwelling. It provides you with a base colour palate with which to work, and can aid in the later selection of cushions, rugs, chairs etc.. With an overall project time hovering around 6-8 hours (depending on the size of the wall you’re painting) from start to finish; painting an accent wall is a surefire method to add a touch of pizzazz to your room.

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The sky is actually the limit on this one. And the best part is that your ventures through a local thrift store or Goodwill can yield incredible results at unbelievably low prices (if any). Being connected with, and actively tracking Craigslist is a secret weapon when it comes to designing on a realistic budget. You may go with vibrant, muted, pastels, or even fabrics and various textures!

Recently a trend has been becoming more and more popular in US homes: a faux headboard. What does this mean? It means that you use the wall and space already available to make a creative and very innovative design in place of a bulky headboard in your room. Pinterest has some gorgeous galleries in case you’re looking for some inspiration. The complexity and project time it will take to finish a headboard creation of your very own is totally up to you. Some companies even offer templates and decals that may be stuck directly to a wall. The advantage to some faux headboard is beyond aesthetic. Aside from the space you can save, and the flexibility in design you may have, a faux headboard is easy to change, easy to update, and can be modified to reflect changing trends or a changing room.

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If you’re anything like me, your life is a constant cacophony of psychological “to-do” lists, family engagements to maintain, errands that need to be run, bills that need to be paid, and a way of communicating that often gets lost in the mix. Developing a DIY message center is a perfect way to be certain everyone is on the same page. What’s wonderful about these types of message centers is that most, if not all, of the materials you will need can either be located at a local thrift shop or on the free part of CL. Don’t wed yourself to chalkboard either. Although chalkboard is a simple solution (especially now that it comes in huge sheets using an adhesive back ( like contact paper), you should also consider using a pane of glass (painted on one side) and framed! It’s the perfect mimic of a dry-erase board, but with more style. You can even use a very thin piece of aluminum if you want to exclusively use magnets, and for those talented seamstresses out there- cloth and ribbon will also produce a beautiful, versatile, Broward County Raccoon Removal, and most importantly- functional piece for your home… and on a budget. A number of these message centers include a section for mail, a section to write notes, and a board to post important bulletins to yourself or your family. I’ve seen every design style from rustic to contemporary, so whatever the style of your house, you can construct a message center to compliment your design strategy when adding functionality.

5.) Change Your Faucets:

An often over-looked item on the “home improvement” list- altering your taps is a simple way to really alter the appearance and feel of a room. Outside of accent pillows, it is the simplest way to breathe life back to a kitchen or bathroom. Your neighborhood hardware store has some amazing selections – do not be afraid to be a little daring! Just make sure that all of the hardware matches, and decide whether it is important to you to have the same hardware throughout the home. This is also a perfect opportunity to re- pet-proof and child-proof your lower lying closets.

6.) Add Some Under/Over Cabinet Accent Lighting:

If you want to really add some wow to your living space, consider over/under cupboard lighting. I can’t stress enough: invest the additional money and get lids. At $20 a roll, you can get LED rope light in any color you can imagine. Dramatic lighting in this way can add incredible depth and dimension to your design space while creating a terrific atmosphere and additional lighting without the hassle or bulk of adding a new lighting fixture. Some companies do offer these kinds of lights at a top- requiring electrical work and a contractor, but the same effect can be accomplished with a simple trip to a local shop and a small amount of clever fastening. Secure the rope lights out of sight in the junction where your counter meets the body of the cabinet, or concealed on the very top. The lights will reflect light off the wall or cupboard (depending on placement) and will produce a dramatic, and beautiful effect that really provides a cutting edge style to any room.

Add a Back-Splash:

Now, depending on how you go about this- it could be both costly and time consuming to install a back splash in your wall. Unless you have some experience with DIY home improvement, I would suggest leaving grout and tile jobs to a professional, however, there are ways to put in a back splash that could be done by anyone, regardless of experience level. Many home improvement stores sell sheets of counter tops, self-adhesive back splashes that mimic the look of real ceramic tile. Of course- consult an expert (even if just your native home improvement partner) about which type and material of tile or tile copy you should receive. A backsplash is just another element like the accented wall; it’s a dash of color and a break up homogeny that adds texture and life to a drab space.

Throw Pillows:

This is more a decorating tip than a home improvement tip- but its details like these that can really tie a room together and help a design space make that leap from concept to polished thought. Think bold and bright. Throw pillows can be just enough color to produce a room interesting without being overwhelming or overbearing. Experiment with different texture and fabric combinations, find a mix that is appropriate for you. Inexpensive, with big impact; throw pillows will be the un-sung heroes of home interior design.

Paint Your Front Door:

Look at almost any “tips, tricks, and ideas” for home improvement, and somewhere on that list will be replacing/repainting the front door. I couldn’t agree more. Beyond the obvious curb appeal, painting your front door can actually refresh your home and add some vibrancy and style to your home-front. First impressions are the most important, right? Make the first impression of your house to be one of happiness and warmth. For less than $30, you won’t believe the difference it will make!

10.) Select a Room: Replace All the Cloth You View:

Updating window treatments, runners, rugs, pillows, and can transform any room in a matter of an instant. That’s the fantastic thing about colour; it can change not only the look, but the feel of any room. Even something as simple as replacing drapes can shed years off the look of your home- and let’s face it- replacing window treatments is just another task on that endless, and unending list of “I will get to this one day” projects all of us keep tucked away. Changing accents like these is elastic, non-committal, and allows space for experimentation and expansion over time. Not many home improvement projects may offer that kind of fluidity.

In final as far as we would like to think that the only way to make a real impact on the aesthetics of a house is through big design jobs, there are clearly tiny ways anyone can transform their house on a realistic budget, in a short amount of time. The above listed improvements can be a family project, involve family, friends, and revel in creating a gorgeous home space and spending some quality time with those close to you. You don’t have to break the bank to change your home’s style. It’s a journey which can be accomplished one step at a time.